Tracks In The Dust

A Father's Advice About Learning the Mission of Life


Truth is, the grass is never greener on the other side. It’s greener where you water it. Being content is a reward in itself, and worthy of pursuit.

And godliness with contentment is great gain (1 Timothy 6:6).

So many times it appears that there is so much pain in our search for richness in our lives, that for many of my friends and family we tend to forget the simple reward… that is contentment itself. Like a wise friend of mine, a man of God  recently recalled  the old adage that the grass is never greener on the other side, it is greener where you nurture [water] it.

Some times it makes me sad to see how hard people are working for that contentment. Doesn’t it seem to you that many people are working so hard to define it and pursue it that they don’t realize it is right in front of them? So often we are making plans for the next thing that will get us to the goals we seek, that we don’t stop to see the simplicity of what is right in our path.

We can help others through kindness and compassion,endurance, love and gentleness as so many of my fellow bloggers have said in so many great ways. We can make the world around us a place we want to be. But not through anger and resentment, but through faith in ourselves. But we have to nurture that, we have work to do on making our “grass” on our side of living be green.

And that takes more than just wishing it so, it takes acceptance and peace of mind that by living it – it will come to us. That is the faith in which we need to fight for. Take hold of the eternal life we all can have. It is simple and not complicated, yet we run the other way in pursuit of something that may give us satisfaction, or instant gratification. Like if we grab that golden ring, wow… life will be so much different.

But the reality of life is that it is tough, it isn’t simple in its own daily turn of the clock. It contains the frustration or sadness of death, failures, illness, hate and fear among so many things.  The reality won’t change, but you can. Accept that the grass can be green where you stand, with the water you provide to make it grow. 

I recall fondly the old movie “Field of Dreams” where a farmer constructs a full baseball field in the middle of his farm in Iowa for what appears to be no reason. “If you build it they will come” the voice whispers. In fact they will come…just grow your faith in what is there in front of you, because others will see it. They will see that your grass is greener and join you for the celebration. The celebration of contentment and the richness of those who will be there with you in this otherwise complicated life while we are here on Earth.

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2 thoughts on “Contentment

  1. Kari J on said:

    so true…I have often heard it said that happiness is not having what you want, but wanting what you have. We have all spent too much time working and striving for some ethereal day when we will be happy. THose that are content are often crticized for being “complacent” by those that feel that unless one is striving for something better, one is not working hard enough. Better is NOW. Happy is NOW. I have worked like dog for the last 35 years and I deserve every minute of loafing and enjoying it all that I take. So here’s to contentment–may it reign. XOXO


    • Thanks Kari my luv. Very well said. Appreciate your comments. Hope all is well with you and yours in the great northeast. 🙂


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